Monday, December 20, 2010

Men would like monogamy better if it sounded less like monotony.

Recently I read "You know how used cars come with a CarFax?I think men should come with a ManFax." I completely agree.I decided to start this blog because my best friends husband
said "Oh my gosh that is so true, you should write about it!" I am not a blogger, my best friend on
the other hand is a writer and blogs frequently. She, I am sure will offer help when I feel stumped!
 I am making a safe assumption in saying  that we have all met one or even a couple of
 men who we wish would have a came equipped with a ManFax! There are things a women needs to know about a potential life partner.  I have been researching facts about men. For the most part they sound like things I have experienced first hand. I am having a hard time
figuring out why men are the way they are, Do we as women bring this behavior out in them or is it that it was there all along  we just don't realize it at  first because we are so smitten? I have had my fair share of relationships. None that ever last because one or both get tired of putting up with the trials and tribulations that the other one brings.
 Don't get me wrong. I am not trying to say that men are at fault for everything. There are a lot of women out there that are at fault as well. So no this is not a man bashing blog. I do plan on writing some ManFax of my own on based on some of the men I have dated and even considered spending my life with. I thought of changing the names of these boys but then I realized that I don't care about their pride! 

3 comments:

  1. I am so glad you started this. I'm so looking forward to all of your posts. I love that you are keeping your humor and shining personality through this blog just as you do in life. I love you!

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  2. Kristi sent me!

    I divorced when I was 34 and had to do the whole dating thing until I met my now-husband at 38...so for 3 years over on MySpace I blogged about my dating misadventures. I did a lot of online dating, where you could see a lot of things that were red flags right away -- smokers, men who have children/men who don't want children (whatever your particular red flag is on that issue). You also could read a lot into what they'd written...the bitterness about women in general, the shallowness that came with the men who said things like, "I want a woman who is in check with her size and weight" (that was actual text from a dating ad I saw)...it just made it easier in general. Of course, after a while you started to wonder if there were any men out there who WEREN'T total freaks and you started lowering your standards until as long as they were breathing and somewhat sane, you'd take it.

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  3. @ Kristi Thank you love. I am excited to see where this goes! @ Stephanie Thank you for stopping by! I too am wondering if they are any men out there that aren't freaks!

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